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Or can you even? Well some women i supposed... That line, "oh all women loves nice guys" It isnt true in my experience, they wanty you to treat them like a princess but at the ame time like an stripper

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When i wrote this i was angry as you possible could guess haha, im one of many guys who are "oh your so kind" and even though many women like to say that good guys are the best its such a bullshit line beacuse more times then one he girls often prefer a bastard that treats them really bad. TNice to see some replies to this and as one memeber wrote it goes both way genderwise, love, friends etc..

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That quote from the playbook was a good read

That's an outdated playbook from decades ago. Does not apply imo anymore, given the changes in modern female assertiveness.


Thoughts:
1) If her goal in life is 'selfie', you might get your way 5-12% of the time.
2) What are her goals? Buliding a family? Creating the elite shoebox collection? Working on building up her man to be a better person? Globe trekker? Just work? (*psst - don't be (in)direct about it*)
3) Can you have 'serious' discussions that don't get washed out in pushbacks all the time?
4) You do know the poll? 70% couples believe they're married to their NON-soul mate. Uh-oh.
5) Does she say only what you / she wants to hear?? Total appeasement??
6) What are your observations? Raw instinct judgments? (ignore sexual, heart, mind opinions)
7) Is your relationship impulsive? Calculated? Just as things come?


It takes time to figure out women. Same like trusting men to marriage - they do change afterwards. And not always better.

The better women tend to be the ones that give you a hard time, for the right reasons. And because they genuinely care about you not doing bad things that don't really help your future. But know when to back off criticism or save it for later.

Usual example is mom knows best. And maybe your daddy.

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That's an outdated playbook from decades ago. Does not apply imo anymore, given the changes in modern female assertiveness.


Thoughts:
1) If her goal in life is 'selfie', you might get your way 5-12% of the time.
2) What are her goals? Buliding a family? Creating the elite shoebox collection? Working on building up her man to be a better person? Globe trekker? Just work? (*psst - don't be (in)direct about it*)
3) Can you have 'serious' discussions that don't get washed out in pushbacks all the time?
4) You do know the poll? 70% couples believe they're married to their NON-soul mate. Uh-oh.
5) Does she say only what you / she wants to hear?? Total appeasement??
6) What are your observations? Raw instinct judgments? (ignore sexual, heart, mind opinions)
7) Is your relationship impulsive? Calculated? Just as things come?
What do -you- want from a woman?


It takes time to figure out women. Same like trusting men to marriage - they do change afterwards. And not always better.

The better women tend to be the ones that give you a hard time, for the right reasons. And because they genuinely care about you not doing bad things that don't really help your future. But know when to back off criticism or save it for later.

Usual example is mom knows best. And maybe your daddy.

You have to poke them with a stick and if their boobs jiggle for more than 10 seconds ,you're on to a winner

How can you trust someone who bleeds for 7 days and doesn't bleed out...

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With your english spelling skills, if I were a girl, I would definitely not look at you...

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His english is the same as my french, and yet there was at least one french girl who looked at me. Therefore, your argument is invalid.

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don't trust anyone it's simple as that. I don't believe in stereotyping and I believe people should be able to make rational,open minded decisions without considering the person's gender, age, nationality. it's hard to trust a person regardless of the gender because some people go miles to show their true face. so always be alert. anyway my motto is you can always trust me but I won't trust you as much as you trust me.

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Haha , so you base womens attraction/trust to guys by how they spell? Okey if you say so (Y)
Then i dont want to know the women you knew, yes english isnt my main tounge and last night i was drunk so if any time thats when the spelling isnt any good
But maybe you speak latin like aristoteles when you are angry and drunk mr man?




Good point.. Had very close mates both man and women that you thought you knew and could trust on. Yes, i like to t give the benefit of the doubt but in my opion there are more assholes then "good guys(and girls ofc) and you can miss out on so much if you arent open..


Cheers for the replies everone

Mr deviance seems to always be trying to get a rise out of peeps,very sad.

He probably understands how to extract responses from people, and has developed skills to prod people into unleashing some content he'd normally not be privy to. Call it a sport.



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Extend what Avaloan says then - be safe! Protect yourself - don't let your guard down!
- Set a default trust meter of 45/100 for everyone. Have it flex from 35-60 (rigid limit). For tight circle (tight family only, no in-laws), at your discretion let it float to 60-70. You don't have to be over-friendly or naively nice or an incredibly stinky vaudevillain. But you need to self-enforce those defined limits.

- Learn other peoples' techniques, body language, speak. They use it (successfully) on you so dig in and discover why. Google about user manuals for men, private investigator tricks for lying, unattractive body cues, marriage mistakes, Dear Abby column, how to manipulate men / women, American shows like Dateline or 48 Hours, crimes friends commit

- Create a list of times you got burned. And forensically pick it apart in incredible detail. Grasp what went wrong and commit. Then destroy all that emotional baggage - the next person doesn't need to be a victim of it.

- Don't do favors. People expect them to be repaid.

- Watch what you say: others will use it against you. Or advertise you on creepyguys.com. It takes work to repair stupid damage.

- You'll learn to deal with setbacks. It's not about how hard you get knocked down but how soft you land.

- If you even sense something wrong around the corner, shields up!!

- Trust is a weakness. And it's a skill you have to develop yourself to recognize who will do you harm. Use it like your PC firewall - only open ports when directly needed and close them later. But limit access anyway.

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One more: innocent people can turn out to be pretty talented liars.

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Great reply catspaw!
You made like an really usefull check-list for this kind of stuff,(y)
Yeah haha dbeen to kind and done favors and sometimes you get it back ,now i rather putting that energy into me and the things i need to do .

Yes some people are very good at that, others show signs and easier to see trough.